Baruch Atah Adonai Dayan Ha-emet (Blessed are you Adonai the judge of truth) are the first words spoken upon hearing of a death. Whether it is a family member or a dear friend, we all look to find meaning in this monumental event. Although death is a natural part of life, whenever it happens, it is still a shock for loved ones and needs to be handled with love, kindness, dignity and healing. This is a time when we wish to seek the comfort of traditional Judaism in the face of death. For mourners, whose lives are often turned upside down by death, the traditional practices of mourning can provide structure and comfort. It is a time to cherish the life of a loved one by celebrating their unique personality and deeds.
Rabbi Ellen P. Zuskin will help you navigate through the Jewish practices in honor of your loved one's passing.